Burnout

Also one of the major causes of divorce is the phenomena, modern contemporary people call (a fancy name for the younger generation. hahaha), "burnout". Burnout like the name insists refers to the dying out of romance. Without any possible direct problem to point out to, burnout can be caused by a variety of things, such as the different individual changes a person has, or the factors brought by their current (as compared to their previous) situation. Burnout happens not only to married couples, but to couples in general. Its a very real-- thing. Which is pretty hard to explain.

Right! it was explained better by the movie "500 days of Summer" where in she referred to it as "Life happens" or life happening. Its the usual end to most relationships. And usually the "dead" end since not most couples are able to adapt or get over it.

For a better explanation, here's a song by Sugarfree. A prominent OPM band (that have recently just disbanded, sharing). It's a great song, with great lyrics, that has a very good emotional tune to it. The treatment is awesome, and without any background on the technicalities, i just think its a good song to explain the reality of the hardships couples have to go through. I mean really? What happens when the romance is gone? What happens when everything doesn't feel warm and fuzzy anymore. It doesn't mean that you don't love the person, its just that.. well.. a bad case of Burning out.  Here are the lyrics, and the link to the song. I really hope you'd listen to it, cause its really easier to get, rather than me explaining it.

Burnout
By Sugarfree

O wag kang tumingin
Ng ganyan sa ‘kin
Wag mo akong kulitin
Wag mo akong tanungin

Dahil katulad mo
Ako rin ay nagbago
Di na tayo katulad ng dati
Kay bilis ng sandali

O kay tagal kitang minahal
[ Lyrics from: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/s/sugarfree/burnout.html ]
Kung iisipin mo
Di naman dati ganito
Teka muna teka lang
Kailan tayo nailang

Kung iisipin mo
Di naman dati ganito
Kay bilis kasi ng buhay
Pati tayo natangay

O kay tagal kitang minahal

Tinatawag kita
Sinusuyo kita
Di mo man marinig
Di mo man madama

O kay tagal kitang mamahalin

lyrics from: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/s/sugarfree/#share7


Here is the link to the song. Go over the lyrics while listening. Solid experience.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C56WmFIvTPM